Often the first challenge in a relationship is getting him to listen. How do you make him receptive to the pearls of your wisdom? How do you open his heart?

• Praise him. While women ache to feel beautiful and sexy, men need to feel heroic and effective. So even before it becomes true, praise him for being powerful, kingly, and brave, for being a master at providing everything you desire. Tell him often how much his manliness turns you on. Magically, he will soon start to believe and live up to your image of him.
• Learn his language. Women like to talk; but men respond to touch. With them, a sensual caress speaks louder than a thousand words. Squeeze his arm as you pass by, casually fondle his member while you watch TV, graze his cheek with your fingers before telling him something important. You will sensitize his skin, soften his heart, and open his ears.
• Inspire him. Instead of wanting him to be someone he isn’t, inspire him to be more of who he is. Believe in him. Envision greatness for him. Be so womanly, so beautiful, so soft, so sensitive and wise that you set aflame his desire to be man enough to win you. Trigger his imagination and he will discover original ways to please you.
• Flatter him by revealing details about himself. Most men don’t have a clue what their most compelling assets are. Tell him how his long eyelashes and smoky blue eyes are the envy of all your friends, or that the little hollow under his left collarbone is outrageously sexy. Divulge to him that, “No one has ever tickled my navel the way you do, with that sexy little flip of your tongue.” He will feel unique, cherished, and eager to know more.
• Start where it counts. For women, love opens the door to sex. For men, sex is the doorway to love. His erotic feel­ings, many of his emotions, and often his ability to reason are centered in his phallus. Begin there—with compli­ments, touch, and yearning gazes — and you can go almost anywhere.

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