Are you a little bored of your love making routine? Maybe sex has lost its sizzle, or you just want to relight the passion sparks in your relationship. Restore the love vibes in your boudoir by turning “not tonight” into “you’ve never seen that before!” All you need are a few simple props!
Hanging chair. You can buy a “love swing” from any sex-toy catalog, adapt a small hammock, or simply suspend cloth strips from a branch, as people in the Orient have done for centuries. He stands, and you recline in the chair, suspended at waist level, legs gloriously splayed by the supports. He can then swing you weightlessly back and forth upon his erection — quite an exhilarating feeling for both of you — and because there’s so little effort involved, he can keep this up for hours. All hands are free to explore, and your G-spot is in for superb stimulation. For variety, he can sit in a regular chair, putting you, brazenly exposed, at mouth level. Or you can switch positions —you stand astride his swinging lance, or either of you kneel in the swing backward and rock. When he’s in the suspended apparatus, add a touch of bondage by tying his hands to the supports above his head. Or get really brassy and transfer all of this to the children’s swings in the park some dark night.
Fizz ball. Insert a moistened Alka-Seltzer tablet in your love tunnel and beckon your man to enter. It makes an invigorating fizzy tingle for both of you.
Aromas. According to a study by Alan R. Hirsch, M.D., director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation, a whiff of lavender increased the blood flow to men’s organs by a whopping 40 percent. Vetiver, camphor, sandalwood, and ambergris are also purported to arouse and strengthen his member. Drop one or several of these scents into his bath, upon his pillow or bedside lightbulb, in his handkerchief, or on your nipples. Trigger your own love juices and fall into a reckless swoon by daubing on jasmine, patchouli, or musk. Cleopatra didn’t soak her sails in perfume for nothing! (By the way, in the above study, men’s penises also became extra engorged when exposed to the smell of doughnuts, black licorice, and pumpkin pie. Start cooking!)
Spreadables. Anything that’s edible and spread-able can be erotically applied. Try blue cheese dressing as a nice contrast to your coral opening; salsa to spice up his sausage; olive oil for glistening, lady-wrestler boobs; warm peanut butter and/or cold jelly on erect nipples; and sour cream atop his adorable buns. The gastronomic possibilities are limited only by your imagination.
Footstool. So ordinary a prop, yet so divinely elevated an experience. Place a low footstool under your fanny, invite your lover to enter you in the missionary position, and rest your feet on his shoulders. He gets an exotic view and deep angle of penetration. You get intense G-spot stimulation. You can also assume the doggy pose atop the stool, allowing him to enter from behind in a near-standing position, where he can get extra thrusting power.
Cardamom. It is said that if you place this herb under your tongue and kiss your lover, he will be bound to you by invisible chains of desire.
Armless rocking chair. Obviously, there are many delicious possibilities. But one I particularly favor is to straddle him as he sits in the chair, both your feet on the floor. Either of you can push with your feet to rock your hips, and all hands are available for body tweaking.
Chocolate. This food of the gods actually contains a substance that accumulates in the pleasure centers of the brain. Even just smelling it can intoxicate. Frost your shoulders, wrists, breasts, and open love lips with double dark chocolate icing (according to Karen Finley, star of The Return of the Chocolate-Smeared Woman, it’s the most spreadable and besotting) and offer yourself for licking. Or erotically smear your guy with chocolate cream pie, slide against him, and lap up every drop. Don’t forget the small of his back, a very erogenous zone for him.
Day bed. The armless ease of a daybed (you can also use two footstools, an armless chaise or beach lounger, or a trunk with padding on top) provides the perfect stage for a provocative bump-and-grind. Have him lie atop the bed while you straddle the entire thing, then lower yourself onto his upright shaft. Your feet on the floor are the only support you need as you jiggle and thrust your unencumbered pelvis. Meanwhile, your hands can be undulating above your head, displaying your breasts, or flickering over his body. For variation, spin around, face his feet, and bounce your buttery bottom.
Mask. Wear a Mardi Gras mask to bed. It lends you mystery, dangerous beauty, and a licentious liberty.
Lotions and powders. There are many love oils, some pleasantly flavored, that actually heat the skin to produce delicious sensations when licked or blown upon. Powders, in fact, are great for adding slinkiness and decreasing friction. You can make your own inexpensive love powders by shaking cornstarch with vanilla, almond, or any other food flavoring you like. Trail, fluff, or flick any of these products across tender inner thighs, ticklish underarms, and erect appendages.
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Article posted on Tuesday, September 8th, 2009, under Featured Tips, Love and Sex.
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