Men thrive on variety, danger, and surprise. Let the powerful adrenaline and sheer kink of the new, the risky, and the unexpected sweep you away into a libidinous love trance that takes you both by storm.
1 Airport pickup. When he returns from a business trip, pick him up at the airport dressed in a trench coat and heels. Escort him to a waiting limo, the kind that has a partition between the passengers and the driver. As you pour him a glass of bubbly, open your coat to reveal that you are wearing nothing beneath your businesslike wrap.
2 Hockey gamed. Surprise him with tickets to a local sporting event. Bring a lap blanket and play with his hockey stick under flannel cover while the crowd cheers.
3 Park bench delight. After a night of dancing, my lover suggested a stroll in a nearby park. I led him to sit on a bench in a particularly dark corner. Lifting up my long, full skirt (under which I wore nothing), I crouched over his lap, opened his jeans, and mounted him. The darkness and my billowing dress kept our activities a thrilling secret.
4 Shower goddess. Surprise him by joining him in the shower, clad in a thin cotton slip or silky camisole. The wet, clingy fabric both looks and feels sinfully sexy.
5 Snowman. On a winter hike or ski trip, drag him off into the forest and give him hot oral sex while he’s braced against a tree. Apply a little snow for contrast. Or, like my brave friend Barb did, strip and have a shocking, hot-cold roll in the snow.
7 Locomotion. Rent a private train compartment and romance him with wine, exotic finger foods, and a boutonniere for his lapel. Then let the rocking, vibrating wheels underscore the wild rhythm of your lovemaking.
8 Baseball field. My friend Toni brazenly invited her first love out to the middle of a deserted baseball field one moonlit night. Prepared with blanket, picnic, and candles, she took him way past first base.
10 Practice exhaling a sensual aura. It is said that the great Monroe generated an intense sexual atmosphere because she thought about sex all the time, considering it with every man she met. Keep your sensuality close to the surface by fantasizing about your man, the gardener, the waiters at the Italian restaurant, and the Dallas Cowboys. No one but you will know. Wash dishes in the nude. Touch yourself sensually every day. Gaze at erotic pictures and imagine yourself into them. Don’t wear any panties for an entire week. Think sex and your body will speak volumes.
11 When you’re out for dinner, seduce him by helping to test the wine. Dip your finger into his glass and then, looking deeply into his eyes, smooth the grapey elixir over his lips.
12 As an elegant invitation to sex, cradle his hand in yours and kiss his palm lingeringly. Pause to glance up meaningfully. Then lick the soft hand pad and give it one delicate bite.
14 Car wash. Help him the next time he washes the car at home. Wear a thin white T-shirt, sit on the hood, and let water cascade over your breasts. Keep the hose streaming between his and your sweaty bodies as you straddle fenders, trunk lids, and hood ornaments.
15 Plastic room. Cover the floor of a small room with a plastic tarp and spray it with whipped cream. Throw your man on top and get slippery with passion.
17 Theater lobby. Just before intermission at a play or concert, take your man out to the lobby and behind the vestibule doors. Pressed up against the wall, trousers and skirt at half-mast, you are in delicious danger of discovery — a position both desperately exciting and totally unforgettable.
18 Waterplay. Weightless, wet, and daring, sex in a tropical sea or wooded lake can provide the perfect touch of exotic adventure. Even just gliding his foreskin to and fro or pressing open the slit in his glans while it’s beneath the waves can create exotically slippery sensations. Float on your back and open your legs, inviting him to enter as you bob back and forth upon his rudder. Or simply hang yourself from his shoulders and hips and buoyantly bounce up and down. Swimming pools are inspirational, too. There, you can suspend yourself by grasping the lip of the pool and use it for leverage as he floats in from behind.
20 Posing for the video camera. Film yourself dancing around naked, doing a striptease, or pleasuring yourself to a steamy orgasm. Set him up in a comfy chair with a glass of wine and give him a private showing.
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Article posted on Tuesday, September 8th, 2009, under Featured Tips, Love and Sex.
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